December 14, 2012
nanty:

Dsquared²

nanty:

Dsquared²

(Source: mensfashionworld, via gthegentleman)

November 17, 2012
sunday noon

难得醒来可以看到阳光洒满整间屋子。边听宫崎骏边看着空气分子在空中飘舞。往事就刷刷地在脑中回顾。

September 4, 2012
让我们最后一次谈一谈你

这是个秘密。

和你分别后的生活被我刻意操纵而驶向你。给朋友照相,想象自己就是相机背后的你;跟随你跨越太平洋然后又跨越美洲大陆从西岸到东岸,现在我们生活在同一座城市;去看你看的电影和舞台剧,读你读的书,尽可能和除了你以外你身边的人成为朋友。

然后多年后我们在一个闷热的下班午后单独见了一次面,你少了些当年的骄傲,但仍然虚荣和自以为是。我记得我们一起过的每一个场景,却忘记了我们那天谈过什么。我不停地问这为什么这就是我这么多年我念念不忘的人。分别之际拥抱了对方,是熟悉的味道,但是没有心跳,没有紧抱,没有纠结。什么都没有。甚至之后我在熙攘的soho逛了会街。

后来的今天去看了你生活过的房子。努力想找寻你留下的气息,却发现我和你其实早就不熟了。站在人群后听着人们对你的戏虐,看看他尴尬的陪笑,心里空空的,空的什么都没有。 这一路走来多少也是我对你的赌气,对自己的赌气。这也是我淋漓尽致发挥天蝎座感情观的唯一一次。 好累。

September 2, 2012
thatluciegirl:

jamesnord:

I saw this couple last night in Bryant Park and asked them if I could snap their photo. After showing them the results, I sat down for a chat. The first leaves were shaking themselves off the trees in the strong breeze and I asked what the occasion for their picturesque picnic was figuring an anniversary or birthday. The man put his cards down and smiled at me saying, “I have been married to the best girl in the world for 30 years, I am doing my best to make sure she knows that.”

Old couples are my favorite / restore my faith in humanity.

thatluciegirl:

jamesnord:

I saw this couple last night in Bryant Park and asked them if I could snap their photo. After showing them the results, I sat down for a chat. The first leaves were shaking themselves off the trees in the strong breeze and I asked what the occasion for their picturesque picnic was figuring an anniversary or birthday. The man put his cards down and smiled at me saying, “I have been married to the best girl in the world for 30 years, I am doing my best to make sure she knows that.”

Old couples are my favorite / restore my faith in humanity.

August 29, 2012
Live better

It’s not about discrimination or pride of being single. It’s not about dependence or taking advantage. Only if you could find someone, not to make your life better, but to make the life better. 

Puppy-love never lasts long. The used-to-be bullshit like mutual objective and interests, peer encouragement and common but unique social circle sounds very significant to me right now. 

Seriously. 

August 27, 2012

(Source: wildluna, via atifkazmi)

August 25, 2012
To liars

谎言被揭穿的时候最尴尬,最真实。谎言都会被揭穿。被别人或被你自己。

性,谎言和录像带。只缺最后一个了。

July 20, 2012

July 3, 2012
Love you, Mr. Cooper!

Andrew, as you know, the issue you raise is one that I’ve thought about for years. Even though my job puts me in the public eye, I have tried to maintain some level of privacy in my life. Part of that has been for purely personal reasons. I think most people want some privacy for themselves and the people they are close to.

But I’ve also wanted to retain some privacy for professional reasons. Since I started as a reporter in war zones 20 years ago, I’ve often found myself in some very dangerous places. For my safety and the safety of those I work with, I try to blend in as much as possible, and prefer to stick to my job of telling other people’s stories, and not my own. I have found that sometimes the less an interview subject knows about me, the better I can safely and effectively do my job as a journalist.

I’ve always believed that who a reporter votes for, what religion they are, who they love, should not be something they have to discuss publicly. As long as a journalist shows fairness and honesty in his or her work, their private life shouldn’t matter. I’ve stuck to those principles for my entire professional career, even when I’ve been directly asked “the gay question,” which happens occasionally. I did not address my sexual orientation in the memoir I wrote several years ago because it was a book focused on war, disasters, loss and survival. I didn’t set out to write about other aspects of my life.

Recently, however, I’ve begun to consider whether the unintended outcomes of maintaining my privacy outweigh personal and professional principle. It’s become clear to me that by remaining silent on certain aspects of my personal life for so long, I have given some the mistaken impression that I am trying to hide something - something that makes me uncomfortable, ashamed or even afraid. This is distressing because it is simply not true.

I’ve also been reminded recently that while as a society we are moving toward greater inclusion and equality for all people, the tide of history only advances when people make themselves fully visible. There continue to be far too many incidences of bullying of young people, as well as discrimination and violence against people of all ages, based on their sexual orientation, and I believe there is value in making clear where I stand.

The fact is, I’m gay, always have been, always will be, and I couldn’t be any more happy, comfortable with myself, and proud.

I have always been very open and honest about this part of my life with my friends, my family, and my colleagues. In a perfect world, I don’t think it’s anyone else’s business, but I do think there is value in standing up and being counted. I’m not an activist, but I am a human being and I don’t give that up by being a journalist.

Since my early days as a reporter, I have worked hard to accurately and fairly portray gay and lesbian people in the media - and to fairly and accurately portray those who for whatever reason disapprove of them. It is not part of my job to push an agenda, but rather to be relentlessly honest in everything I see, say and do. I’ve never wanted to be any kind of reporter other than a good one, and I do not desire to promote any cause other than the truth.

Being a journalist, traveling to remote places, trying to understand people from all walks of life, telling their stories, has been the greatest joy of my professional career, and I hope to continue doing it for a long time to come. But while I feel very blessed to have had so many opportunities as a journalist, I am also blessed far beyond having a great career.

I love, and I am loved.

In my opinion, the ability to love another person is one of God’s greatest gifts, and I thank God every day for enabling me to give and share love with the people in my life. I appreciate your asking me to weigh in on this, and I would be happy for you to share my thoughts with your readers. I still consider myself a reserved person and I hope this doesn’t mean an end to a small amount of personal space. But I do think visibility is important, more important than preserving my reporter’s shield of privacy.

May 28, 2012
家后

总是会记起边开车边哭泣的你,对感情失望转而寻欢作乐的你,对世事看透谈笑风生的你。永远都是我的心头好。

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